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How heavy should a woman over 50 lift weights?
Answered by Nikkiey Stott and Maggie Topham · Updated
The short answer
Heavy enough that the last two or three reps of each set feel hard but not painful, with good form. There is no single number. Start lighter to learn the movements, then add weight once you can do about 12 to 15 reps without struggling. Nikkiey suggests going up two to five pounds at a time.
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Nikkiey's simple test for whether your weight is right and when to go heavier
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Maggie on starting lighter in your 50s, learning form and when to add load
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Maggie explains what lifting heavy really means for women in their 40s and 50s
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Nikkiey on why the same weight stops working and how to progress, even at home
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The full answer
Maggie Topham is clear that heavy means something different for every woman, and form comes first. If you're new to lifting in your 50s, she says to take your time: try lighter weights, learn how each movement should look and feel, and then learn what pushing your body really feels like. Some women have been athletic their whole life. Others haven't, and lifting lighter while you learn isn't weakness. It's how you make sure the right muscles are doing the work.
Once your form is solid, the weight has to challenge you. Both coaches use a similar test, with slightly different numbers:
- Nikkiey, on Ep. 409: the last two to three reps should feel hard, not impossible or painful. If you can do 12 reps and feel like you could keep going, add two to five pounds.
- Maggie: she pushes each set until only one or two good-form reps are left, and when she reaches roughly 12 to 15 reps, she raises the weight a little.
The point underneath both is progression. Nikkiey says the biggest mistake she sees in women going through menopause is finding a comfortable weight and staying there forever. If you're pressing the same 10-pound dumbbells you used six months ago, your body has already adapted. Comfortable maintains, while progressive challenge builds. If you don't have heavier weights at home, she suggests slowing down: three seconds down, a one-second pause, three seconds up. That makes the same dumbbell work much harder.
Form is your limit. On a dumbbell hinge, Nikkiey says that if your back rounds, stop, because the weight is too heavy or you're moving too fast. And this kind of training won't make you bulky. Maggie says it's hard enough for women to see muscle definition, and lifting heavy simply means giving your body enough stimulus to build muscle.
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