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What is a back-friendly alternative to sit-ups?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

The short answer

The dead bug is a back-friendly alternative to sit-ups. Nikkiey explains that sit-ups aren't the most back-friendly move as we get older. Dead bugs train your core to resist movement, which supports spinal health, posture and strength. She says they help if you've dealt with lower back pain, and you only need a mat.

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  1. Nikkiey on why dead bugs beat sit-ups for your back after 40

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  2. Why dead bugs train the deep core muscle most women have never worked

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  3. Plank pull-throughs as a spine-friendly core move that builds stability

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The full answer

Nikkiey explains that sit-ups are still treated as the go-to core move, but they are not the most back-friendly option, especially with age. That's why so many of the women she coaches prefer dead bugs. The move trains the transverse abdominis, the deep core muscle that pulls your belly inward. She says many women over 40 who struggle with back pain, a weak core or recurring injuries have never trained this muscle properly, or didn't know it existed. She calls dead bugs one of the safest and most effective ways to strengthen it without putting stress on your neck, back or joints.

How Nikkiey cues it:

  • Lie on a mat on the floor. No other equipment is needed.
  • Press your lower back firmly into the floor to protect your spine and switch on your deep core.
  • Move opposite arm and opposite leg, like a slow, controlled march.
  • Lower your arm and leg slowly, keeping your lower back pressed down the whole time.
  • She suggests three sets of eight reps per side.

She admits it's not flashy, but she calls it powerful. Training your core to resist movement is what she ties to injury prevention and total body control. Crunching through endless reps is not the point.

If you want a next step, Nikkiey also covers plank pull-throughs in her dumbbell routine. She says they train anti-rotation and protect your spine by building stability, where many traditional ab exercises stress it. If you've avoided core work because sit-ups hurt your back, the problem was the exercise, not you. If you have an ongoing back condition, check with your doctor or a qualified professional before starting.

From Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaching. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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