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What can I do if I can't do a full push-up?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

The short answer

Start with a modified push-up. Do them against a wall, counter or sturdy table, or with your knees on the floor instead of a full plank. Nikkiey favors incline push-ups for women over 40 because they ease wrist and shoulder strain while working the same muscles. Lower the incline as you get stronger.

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  1. Nikkiey on why incline push-ups suit women over 40 and how to progress them

    Plays from 2:51 · Video: 5-Move No-Equipment Home Workout for Women Over 40

  2. How to do knee push-ups with proper form: straight line, elbows tucked in

    Plays from 4:11 · Video: Full-Body Dumbbell and Cable Workout for Women Over 40

  3. Wall and knee push-up options, plus why push-ups help core and bone health

    Plays from 3:13 · Video: 5 Strength Exercises for Women Over 50 and a Weekly Plan

  4. Nikkiey on the dumbbell bench press as a joint-friendly push-up alternative

    Plays from 1:54 · Video: 6 Joint-Friendly Exercises to Build Muscle After 40

The full answer

Not being able to do a full push-up doesn't mean you can't train your chest. It means you need a starting point that fits where you are right now. Nikkiey explains that floor push-ups can be hard on women over 40 because of wrist strain, tight shoulders and core instability. Incline push-ups take pressure off all three and still target the same muscles. In her no-equipment home workout, she suggests 3 sets of 8 to 10 reps, with your core engaged and your neck neutral.

Form matters more than the version you choose. The full-body dumbbell and cable workout breaks it down:

  • Hands about shoulder width apart, body in a straight line from head to heels (or knees)
  • Elbows tight to your sides, not flaring out
  • Lower until your chest is just above the floor, then push back up
  • Don't let your hips sag

To build toward a full push-up, Nikkiey says to lower the incline over time. Wall, then counter, then table, then knees, then the floor. Her general rules for progressing at home also apply: add 2 to 3 reps a week, slow each rep down, or shorten your rest. The women-over-50 strength video adds why push-ups are worth working toward. They engage your core for balance, and their weight-bearing nature can help preserve bone density in your wrists and arms.

If push-ups bother your wrists or shoulders even when modified, you don't have to force them. Nikkiey recommends the dumbbell bench press as a way to train your chest and arms without push-ups. Do 3 sets of 6 to 8 reps. Start light and add five pounds over time. Even that small jump counts as real progress.

From Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaching. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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