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Should I lift heavy or light weights to lose weight?
Answered by Nikkiey Stott · Updated
The short answer
Lift a weight that is challenging for you, with good form. Nikkiey Stott says the number on the dumbbell matters less than the tension you create on the muscle. For fat loss she pairs higher reps with a challenging weight, and when the weight feels easy, she says to go heavier rather than add sets.
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Nikkiey on why tension and form matter more than the number on the weight
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Nikkiey on dropping the weight to keep form and when to add 2.5 to 5 pounds
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Nikkiey on 20 lighter reps versus 15 heavier reps and time under tension
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The full answer
Nikkiey explains that the weight you can lift will shift from day to day with food, sleep, water and your cycle, so chasing a specific number misses the point. What builds muscle, and what gets you toned, is the resistance and tension on the muscle you're working, plus the mind-to-muscle connection that good form gives you. Her test for the right weight: you should have to power through the last two to three reps of the set.
She gives a simple way to match reps to your goal, as long as the weight stays challenging either way:
On the 15-versus-20-reps question, Nikkiey says the only real difference is more time under tension. Pick whatever weight lets you finish the rep range, which usually means a bit lighter for 20 and a bit heavier for 15.
- Lower reps build fast-twitch fibers and new muscle, and more muscle helps your body burn more fat.
- Higher reps build endurance and strength and keep your heart rate up, which she says helps burn body fat and show the tone underneath.
Form is the line she won't cross. If you grab a heavy weight and can only get 8 of your 12 reps, or you start losing form around rep 10, drop the weight. Otherwise other muscles take over, you stop targeting the one you meant to work, and you raise your risk of injury. If the last few reps go up too easily, add 2.5 to 5 pounds on your next set.
When a member asked whether more sets helps with weight loss, Nikkiey said to keep the three or four sets your program calls for and go heavier instead. She thinks most women underestimate themselves, so she suggests ramping up. Start the first set at a weight you know you can do, add about five pounds on the next, go a little higher on the third, then repeat that weight for the fourth. Her challenge is to try five to 10 pounds heavier and watch what you can do with good form.
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