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How can I check my lifting form without a trainer?
Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated
The short answer
Record yourself lifting and send the video to a coach who can tell you what to fix. On The WarriorBabe Show, clients Debbie, Michelle and Jodi describe filming their sets, rewatching exercise demo videos as often as they need, and messaging their coach from the gym. A trainer doesn't need to stand beside you.
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Debbie on filming her lifts and being told to drop the weight when her form slipped
Plays from 28:28 · Ep. 368: Losing Weight by Eating More After Years of Dieting

Michelle on rewatching demos and sending form videos to her coach
Plays from 16:03 · Video: Building Muscle After Gastric Bypass: Michelle's Story
Jodi on built-in form videos and why online feels like a personal trainer
Plays from 28:32 · Ep. 256: Eating More and Getting Leaner at 54: Jodi's Story
The full answer
On Ep. 368, Debbie explains that when she isn't sure about a lift, she films herself and asks her coach, Stevie, "Am I doing this right?" Once she tried to go really heavy, and her coach told her to drop the weight because her form was out of whack. The host's takeaway: you can record yourself, send it to your coach, and find out what to fix or whether you're doing it right. Going heavier only counts if your form holds up, and an honest set of eyes on your video will tell you when it doesn't.
In her story video, Michelle says online coaching worked better for her than in-person training. She could watch the exercise videos over and over until she understood the movement. She could also send videos of herself so her coach could tell her what she was and wasn't doing. Because she trained at home, she could fit workouts around her schedule instead of a fixed appointment. She does admit it felt strange at first to train without someone telling her what to do.
On Ep. 256, Jodi describes the same setup:
- Form videos are built into her program, so she can see each movement before she does it.
- Her workouts are tailored to her goals and change every month.
- If she's at the gym and something doesn't make sense, she messages her coach, who usually responds quickly.
- The program travels with her on vacation and work trips.
She also says that trainers near her charge about 90 to 180 dollars an hour, and that some clients she sees with in-person trainers spend the session chatting.
If you've struggled to get your form right, it's not that you can't learn it. You've likely been missing feedback. The common thread across these episodes is a clear demo to follow, a video of yourself, and a coach who reviews it.
From Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaching. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.
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