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How do I choose a weight loss program that actually works for women over 40?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaches · Updated

The short answer

Run any program through five questions before you pay: Does it have a hard deadline? Does it start with restriction? Does it include real progressive strength training? Does it set a protein target based on your body? Is there a plan for after it ends? A program that fails these is built for a finish line, not your life.

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  1. A WarriorBabe coach on the five questions to ask before buying any program

    Plays from 17:33 · Video: 5 Weight Loss Rules That Backfire on Women Over 40

  2. Why the six-week Instagram shred challenge hits every red flag on the list

    Plays from 18:55 · Video: 5 Weight Loss Rules That Backfire on Women Over 40

  3. Nikkiey on why six-week programs lead to yo-yo dieting and regain

    Plays from 19:54 · Ep. 133: Goals vs Systems: Why You're Not Reaching Fitness Goals

  4. Raven on her eight-week program working, then leaving her with no next step

    Plays from 1:47 · Video: Why Your Results Stop After an 8-Week Program: Raven's Story

  5. Nikkiey on why 30- or 60-day programs aren't long enough to change habits

    Plays from 8:59 · Video: How to Break Bad Eating Habits Using the Habit Loop

The full answer

One WarriorBabe coach explains why each question matters. If the first move is eat less, ask how that's different from everything you've already tried. Strength training should mean progressive overload with real weights, not toning, bands or 50-rep bodyweight sets, because muscle is the engine that changes your body. Protein should be an actual number based on your weight and goals; she puts it at 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of goal body weight, and says if they never asked what you weigh, body composition was never part of the plan. Then ask what happens on day 32 of the 30-day challenge. If the answer is buy the next round, you've found the business model. She runs the popular six-week Instagram shred through the list (1,200 calories, HIIT, one meal plan for everyone) and it fails every question. She also says to put WarriorBabe through the same five questions, because a company worth your money will be happy to answer them.

The deadline question matters most. On Ep. 133, Nikkiey explains that when you solve problems at the results level, you only solve them temporarily, which is why people yo-yo from program to program and regain the weight once six weeks are up. In her habit loop video, she adds that 30 or 60 days usually isn't enough time to change a habit. If you want health and muscle for life, she says, there is no finish line, so build the systems now.

The women who've lived it say the same. Raven had an eight-week coach with tailored macros and a meal plan, and it worked, until it ended and she had nothing to turn to. BillieJo found her friend had the exact same plan from the same trainer; what she needed was to learn how to do it herself, including how macros change as goals change. And if coaching isn't in the budget yet, Debbie suggests on Ep. 368 starting with the free programs Nikkiey offers, seeing that the approach works for you, then joining when you can.

From WarriorBabe's coaches (how we write our answers). For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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