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How much deep sleep and REM sleep should I get?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

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On Ep. 196 of The WarriorBabe Show, Nikkiey passes along Dr. Cabral's recommendation: aim for 70 to 90 minutes of deep sleep and two hours or more of REM sleep each night. She treats sleep as a real pillar of fat loss after 40, not an afterthought, because so much recovery happens while you sleep.

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  1. Nikkiey shares Dr. Cabral's deep sleep and REM targets, and why deep sleep matters

    Plays from 20:59 · Ep. 196: How Does Sleep Affect Fat Loss and Muscle After 40?

  2. Nikkiey's own Oura ring deep sleep and REM numbers from one night

    Plays from 21:17 · Ep. 196: How Does Sleep Affect Fat Loss and Muscle After 40?

  3. The three, two, one method for better sleep from Dr. Cabral

    Plays from 23:43 · Ep. 196: How Does Sleep Affect Fat Loss and Muscle After 40?

The full answer

Nikkiey explains that deep sleep matters because growth hormone is released primarily during sleep, and primarily during deep sleep. She also says sleep has a direct effect on your metabolism, and that being sleep deprived can contribute to weight gain over time, even when your workouts, macros and hydration are on point. If you are doing everything right and still stuck, sleep may be the pillar that is missing. That is a gap in the plan, not a failing on your part.

She tracks her own sleep with an Oura ring and shared one night where she got an hour and 55 minutes of deep sleep and two hours and 45 minutes of REM, comfortably past the targets. She calls herself a sleep champion and says she feels the positive effects afterward. A tracker can show you where you sit against the 70 to 90 minutes of deep sleep and two-plus hours of REM.

To get there, Nikkiey shares the three, two, one method Dr. Cabral described on a WarriorBabe community call:

She is especially firm on the phone. No doom scrolling in bed, and she keeps hers out of her bedroom entirely.

  • Three hours before bed, stop eating.
  • Two hours before bed, no liquids.
  • One hour before bed, no blue light: no TV, computer or phone, and wear blue light blockers if you have them.

Dr. Cabral framed this method in particular for people who feel tired and wired, with cortisol low in the morning and high at night. If you suspect something hormonal is affecting your sleep, that is a conversation to have with your doctor.

From Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaching. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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