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Why am I not getting results with a personal trainer?
Answered by Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaches · Updated
The short answer
Often it's the plan, not your effort. On The WarriorBabe Show, women describe trainers who handed out cookie-cutter plans, focused only on calories or more cardio, and never taught them nutrition. Lifting can build muscle, but food was the missing piece, and even the best trainer can't do the consistent daily work for you.
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Kris on lifting three days a week with a trainer and still not losing fat
Plays from 20:19 · Ep. 236: Losing Weight at 54 With Crohn's: A Macro Story

BillieJo on three trainers, cookie-cutter plans and a friend's identical plan
Plays from 1:03 · Video: Tired of Cookie-Cutter Trainer Plans? BillieJo's Story
Nikkiey on why no trainer or program can do the physical work for you
Plays from 3:45 · Ep. 163: How to Take Control of Your Fitness Results After 40
Kris on realizing food was 80 percent of the problem and her trainer dismissing macros
Plays from 23:47 · Ep. 236: Losing Weight at 54 With Crohn's: A Macro Story
The full answer
On Ep. 236, Kris shares how she lifted with a trainer three days a week, an hour a day, with progressive overload. She was building muscle and felt amazing, but she wasn't losing fat. Her trainer was a calorie-in, calorie-out guy who started her around 1,975 calories for a muscle-building goal. When she asked about macro counting, he told her it was garbage. She didn't follow his suggestion to do more cardio. Instead she cut soda, sugar and fast food, and came to see that food was 80 percent of the problem. She trusted him because of his training and athletic background, and stayed nearly three years before finding a different approach.
BillieJo tells a similar story in a WarriorBabe video. She had hired about three trainers, and every plan was cookie-cutter. A friend hired the same trainer and got the exact same plan. After six weeks it was always "now what?" What she needed was to learn how to do it for herself, including how her macros need to change depending on what she's trying to do with her body.
Nikkiey adds the other half on Ep. 163. A trainer, an online coach or a program is a tool. They can give you the best plan and guidance, but they can't meal prep in your kitchen or physically do your workouts. Results come from applying the nutrition and training consistently over weeks, months and even years. She also points out that limiting beliefs and old stories can get in the way, and a good coach helps you get to the root of them.
So if you're training hard and nothing is changing, look at the plan first:
- Is it built for you, or the same one everyone gets?
- Does it address nutrition, not just workouts or more cardio?
- Are you learning to do this yourself, so it lasts past six weeks?
From WarriorBabe's coaches (how we write our answers). For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.
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Fat Loss After 40
How fast should I expect to lose weight?
Nikkiey says sustainable fat loss might average 0.5 to 1 pound per week, and some weeks you'll see nothing because water retention, your period or stress can mask progress. Judge the trend over months, not days, and don't measure yourself against anyone else's timeline. Moving slower is how the women who keep it off got there.
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Fat Loss After 40
Why can't I lose weight after 40 even though I eat less and exercise more?
Nikkiey's answer: your body after 40 doesn't respond to restriction the way it did at 25. Eating less and doing more signals stress, so your body lowers your metabolic rate, raises cortisol, breaks down muscle and holds on to fat. The fix she teaches is more food, more protein, strength training and recovery, not further cuts.
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Fat Loss After 40
What is the best exercise for a woman over 40 to lose weight?
Strength training is the best exercise for fat loss after 40, according to The WarriorBabe Show. The coaches recommend lifting three to four days a week, walking on your days off, and at most one or two short interval sessions weekly. The reason: muscle burns calories around the clock, while long cardio sessions can backfire.
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