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If you've spent years swinging between strict diet foods and giving up, this short video offers a steadier approach. Nikkiey Stott and her guests explain that the foods they eat don't change whether they're losing, gaining or maintaining weight. The bulk is quality food, about 80 to 90 percent of the time, with room for things they enjoy, like a few pieces of Dove chocolate every night that fit the macros.
The conversation also covers catching yourself in the moment, like reaching for the peanut butter jar and stopping to ask whether it supports you. It touches on letting go of fear-based what-ifs and comparison. Aida explains why a woman shouldn't measure herself against men who train as hard, and why she's protective of the women reading her comments.
The second half is practical nutrition. Nikkiey explains how paying attention to protein, carbs and fat supports muscle growth and a more toned look. She suggests starting with your pre- and post-workout meals. She also explains how your body can adapt to eating before morning workouts within a few weeks, and why complex carbs work best 60 to 90 minutes before training.
Key takeaways
- Keep the same foods whether you're losing, gaining or maintaining weight, rather than switching to a special diet for each phase.
- Aim for quality food about 80 to 90 percent of the time and work in foods you enjoy, such as a few pieces of chocolate that fit your macros.
- When you notice an impulse, like eating peanut butter straight off the spoon, pause and ask whether it actually supports you.
- Stop basing decisions on fear and what-ifs about results, and recognize the progress you've already made.
- Don't compare your body to men who train as hard as you; women have a different hormone setup and that's not the goal anyway.
- Break your calories into protein, carbs and fat to support muscle growth, which is what helps you look more toned.
- Plan your meals ahead of time, starting with your pre- and post-workout meals.
- Eat complex carbs like oatmeal, brown rice or whole wheat toast 60 to 90 minutes before training for sustained energy.
Questions answered
Do I need to eat different foods when I'm trying to lose weight?
In this video, the foods don't change whether you're losing, gaining or maintaining weight. The majority is quality food, around 80 to 90 percent, with room for things you like.
What if my body isn't used to eating before a morning workout?
Nikkiey explains that the first few days or the first week may feel hard, even like you might feel sick mid-workout. If you keep doing it for two or three weeks, your body adapts to having food before you train.
When should I eat complex carbs before a workout?
Nikkiey recommends eating complex carbs like oatmeal, brown rice or whole wheat toast 60 to 90 minutes before you work out. They take longer to digest and give you more sustained energy through your workout than simple carbs.
Which meals should I start planning first?
Nikkiey suggests starting with your pre- and post-workout meals. Pre-workout gives you fuel from protein and carbs, and paying attention to both meals helps stimulate muscle repair and growth.
How do I stop myself from eating on impulse?
The video suggests practicing resisting impulses until you consciously catch yourself in the moment. For example, when you're about to finish the peanut butter off the spoon, remind yourself that it isn't supporting you.
Full transcript
Nikkiey: Real quick, the only ask I could ever have of you guys is to help spread the word so we can help more women lose body fat, build muscle, reach their goals, and feel insanely confident. And the only way we can do that is if you rate, review, and share this podcast. So the single thing I ask you to do is leave a review. It will take you 10 seconds, and it will mean the absolute world to me and may change the world of someone else.
Guest: The way that we eat doesn't change.
Nikkiey: Exactly. The foods I eat, I tell people this, the foods I eat don't change, whether I'm losing weight, gaining weight, or maintaining weight. It never changes. I always eat the same things. Always.
Guest: Exactly. You still need to eat healthy foods.
Nikkiey: Quality food, yeah.
Guest: Quality food the majority of the time, but you can still work in things that you like.
Nikkiey: Yeah, like 80%, 90% quality food. I have Dove chocolate every night. I have two to four pieces of whatever fits in my macros every night, because it just gives me that sweet tooth, curbs my cravings, and I'm solid.
Guest: When you're practicing resisting your impulses more and more, you'll pick up your phone and you'll consciously catch yourself that you're about to go through this loop. And it's going to be so easy. Like, you're pulling the peanut butter out, since we use that example so many times. You pull the peanut butter out, and you're like, oh, I just want to eat the rest of it on the spoon. No, you're going to catch yourself. You're going to be consciously aware of the situation. It's going to be like, nope, that's not what I'm doing. That's not what I'm here to do. That's not fulfilling. You're just going to be like, no, this isn't supporting me.
That's usually what comes to my mind right away when I'm in the act of doing something or about to do this pattern, allowing myself to go into the impulse rather than resisting it. I'll be like, no, man, this doesn't support me. And I know it's easier said than done, because a lot of people's brains are wired this way. But you have no idea what's going to happen in five minutes. You have no idea what's going to happen in five days. And you have no idea what's going to happen next week. So stop telling yourself, what if? What if that? You're now basing things out of fear. By saying, oh, I'm not where I should be, I'm not seeing results fast enough. Yet in reality, in the moment, you really are where you should be. You really are creating results. But you're too hooked on how things should be and not grateful for what you've accomplished so far.
Aida: Everyone is so differently built. And honestly, if I compare myself to any other guy that works out as many hours as I do, as hard as I do, he's going to be twice my size.
Nikkiey: And why is that? Let's elaborate on that.
Aida: Because I'm a woman. I don't have the same hormone setup as a guy does. But that does not mean that I can't still look the best that I can or live the way that I can. But again, I am not trying to become anyone other than me. So therefore, I'm also not annoyed anymore. The only reason I'm annoyed when people write that is because I know people are reading my comments. And if there's a woman who wants to look like the two of us, I don't want her to see that, because maybe she cannot cope with that right now.
Nikkiey: I love it. That's your heart, man. I love it, Aida. You're so sweet like that. Nobody thinks about that stuff. That's deep. You're concerned about a woman who may be feeling insecure, who aspires to look like you or I, and she sees that comment. And then that could easily deter her from wanting to embark on her journey.
Nikkiey: If you're focusing on breaking down those calories more efficiently, paying attention to how much fat you're having, how much protein you're having, and how much carbohydrates you're having, that's going to support muscle growth. And again, to reiterate, that's what's going to support you looking more toned.
If you can plan your meals ahead of time, which is so very important, you guys, like the day before, or even just your pre- and post-workout meal, those are the first two meals I would highly recommend you start paying attention to. You want to eat pre-workout. You want to eat post-workout. Paying attention to those two things is going to help you start stimulating muscle repair and start that growth process. The pre-workout meal is what's going to give you fuel for your workout: the protein, the carbohydrates. It's very important to have that fuel for your workout. And then post-workout, as I've already explained.
I used to work with a client who was like, I just don't have enough time to eat before I work out in the morning. And I was like, yes, you do. You have at least 30 minutes from the time you get up to the time you go work out. And listen, you may not want to eat once you get up before you work out, because your body is so used to not eating, right? For the first couple of days, for the first week that you're trying this new thing, fueling yourself before you work out may be hard. It may feel like you're going to throw up in the middle of the workout. But guess what? As you keep doing it for two weeks, three weeks, your body is going to adapt to you having food before your workout, okay? So it's all about adaptation, you guys. Your body is conditioned one way, to not have anything before you work out. And you can easily change it and make it adapt to the fact that you have a meal before you go work out.
Anything that consists of a complex carbohydrate, like oatmeal, brown rice, whole wheat bread like I mentioned, whole wheat toast, should be consumed anywhere between 60 and 90 minutes before you work out. And the reason is that complex carbohydrates take longer to digest than simple carbohydrates, and they also produce longer, sustained energy levels than simple carbs do. So if you have it 90 minutes out and you go work out 90 minutes later, you're still going to have a sustained energy level throughout your entire workout. Whereas with a simple carbohydrate like fruits, white rice, rice cakes, English muffins, which is another really good example for you morning people who are early risers and go work out, you'll want to work out when you have these types of carbohydrates. With protein, it doesn't matter. But with these types of carbohydrates, it does.
Nikkiey: Real quick, the only ask I could ever have of you guys is to help spread the word so we can help more women lose body fat, build muscle, reach their goals, and feel insanely confident. And the only way we can do that is if you rate, review, and share this podcast. So the single thing I ask you to do is leave a review. It will take you 10 seconds, and it will mean the absolute world to me and may change the world of someone else.
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