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What is the difference between motivation and discipline?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

The short answer

Motivation is a feeling, and discipline is an action. Nikkiey describes motivation as a fleeting emotion that ebbs and flows and runs dry at the worst times. Discipline is showing up to do the work you planned even when you don't feel like it. She credits 99.9 percent of her own success to discipline.

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  1. Nikkiey on why discipline, not motivation, drives 99.9 percent of her success

    Plays from 19:08 · Ep. 225: How to Get Back on Track With Your Fitness Goals

  2. Nikkiey defines self-discipline and why waiting for motivation leads to quitting

    Plays from 9:03 · Ep. 385: How to Build Self-Discipline After 40 Without Motivation

  3. Why motivation fails long term and the system Nikkiey uses instead

    Plays from 2:35 · Video: Nikkiey Stott's Fitness Journey and 5-Step Roadmap

  4. Nikkiey on sleep as one of the truest tests of self-discipline

    Plays from 26:27 · Ep. 385: How to Build Self-Discipline After 40 Without Motivation

The full answer

On Ep. 385, Nikkiey explains that almost everyone starts fired up, whether that is a new week or joining WarriorBabe. That motivation tends to wash out three or six months in. Then people wait for it to come back, and she calls that the emotional reason people quit. On Ep. 225 she makes the same point about start dates. If you wait for February 1st to feel motivated, you may wake up that day not feeling it and push everything to March 1st. Her view is that there is no perfect time to start.

She defines self-discipline as the ability to control your feelings and overcome your weaknesses, and to pursue what you know is right despite the temptation to abandon it. In practice that means working out, tracking macros, sleeping, drinking water and getting your steps in when you feel tired, had a long day, feel like an imposter or are scared of the weight room. Those are feelings, and she says you can act despite them. Her own example: she plans to train at 3 p.m., doesn't feel like it at 2:30, and goes anyway. She also calls sleep one of the truest tests of discipline. That means turning off the show at bedtime and not hitting snooze.

In her fitness journey video, Nikkiey describes her old weeks as run entirely by emotion. She went all in on Monday, skipped by Wednesday, checked out after one off-plan meal on Friday, and restarted the next Monday. What changed it was a system:

  • Non-negotiable workouts on the calendar
  • Meals prepped ahead of time
  • Structure that removes decision fatigue, so you don't rely on willpower every day

On Ep. 225 she pairs discipline with grace. Don't beat yourself up when you slip. Notice what happened, adjust and keep going. If you have struggled to stay consistent, she would say the problem was a plan built on feelings, not you.

From Nikkiey Stott and WarriorBabe's coaching. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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